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 2006.11.28

     我们让每个日子都特别得过 因为多年前的一声啼哭  那份荣耀的成绩书
     还是家人的彻夜促膝长谈 朋友精心的意外之喜
     努力过却失败的花衬衫 情人手上带刺的红玫瑰
     好眼泪坏眼泪
     每一天经历着改变着你自己
     却还不知道沧海桑田的久远
     整理思绪可以做的只有坚强自己感恩他人
     想到未来的某一天看看
     悄悄地看看世界看看天空看看自己和他们

     继续是不变的轨迹
     触碰是难得的经历
     我开心自己正在的日子 她改变着我
     我的心境 我的故事 我的拥有
     想起曾经自己每一次倔强地扭头 每一次任性地说不
     我知道那天我不开心不感恩 我在迷失
     而今只有付之一笑 努力寻找自己
     希望他如今般心情陪伴我一直一直

2006.11.10
 
 DH s03e07 让我如痴如醉地淹没在她们的情节中
体会着每个人生活里永远无法解开的心结 so brutal the desperation is.
结尾mary alice的两句话听着我couldnt calm down
  ——we can't prevent what we can't predict
  ——Do what we can and treasure what we have  
 
既然我们无法去阻止将要发生而无法预测的事情
那么就只能尽力而为并珍惜我们如今所拥有的
its full of the sorrow in the deep heart but still kept the hope in the future
 
lynette剧中高潮的几句话绝对抒发了此剧中所有housewives的心声
We all have pains  but we have to deal with it
we swallow it and get going with our life
谁人不是呢 who cares who can notices other people's pain
on the world like this   the only one who can save u is definitely urself.
 
不管你的世界里发生什么 生活总要继续
而唯一能从desperation中拯救你的只有你自己不是么
无论是drama还是reality  

this should be the only truth that we can believe so i like this episode so much   cause it told me what is real life or how to be grateful to god even.

2006.10.21

偶尔看到的生命中的11种感动：
It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return. But what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel.

A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you,only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go.
　　
The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch swing with never say a word and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.
　　
It's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it,but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.

It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone,an hour to like someone and a day to love someone- but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.

Don't go for looks they can deceive. Don't go for wealth,even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.

Dream what you want to dream,go where you want to go,be what you want to be,because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.
 
Always put yourself in the other's shoes. If you feel that it hurts you it probably hurts the person too.

A careless word may kindle strife,a cruel word may wreck a life,a timely word may level stress,a loving word may heal and bless.

The happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.
　　
Love begins with a smile,grows with a kiss,ends with a tear. When you were born you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die you're the one smiling and everyone around you is crying.
 
But my sensation is the right moment when u call me honey and show me ur precious courage!

 2006.10.10

Human beings are designed for many things
But loneliness is not one of them.
It's a promise made to each of us at birth But before that promise is kept
we all hope something will happen to us
Whether it is the thrill of romance
the joy of finding out our love or the anguish of great loss
We all hope to experience something that make our lives meaningful
But the sad fact is not all lives have meaning
Some people spend their time on this planet just sitting on the sidelines
waiting for something to happen to them before it's too late

Each night before we fall asleep we lie to ourselves in a desperate hope that
come morning it will all be true
Sooner or later the time comes when we all must become responsible adults
and learn to give up what we want so we can choose to do what is right
Of course a lifetime of responsibility isn't always easy
And as the years go on it's a burden that can become too heavy for some to bear
But still we try to do what is best what is good not only for ourselves but for those we love


we live each in our own way so brave so determined and so very desperate
Desperate to get everything we want even when we've not exactly sure of what that is
Desperate for life to be perfect again although we realize it never really were
Desperate for a better future if we can find a way to escape our past
I not only watch I cheer everybody on these amazing people
I hope so much everyone will find what they're looking for but I know not all of them will
Sadly that's just not the way life works not everyone gets a happy ending

we have beautiful dreams for the future and quiet hopes for a better life
If god could, would angel warn everybody of the sorrow and betrayal that lie in store?
No. From where they stand now they see enough of the road to understand how it must be traveled

2006.09.22 

旅行途中有很多风景也许这一生就只看这一次．可以选择忘掉，可以选择用某些外部记忆装置储存下来，作为回忆的检索．

人总是害怕会消失．会像写在黑板上的字一样一抹即掉．但事实上，大多数人正是如此．一个人的历史是如此微不足道，即使被历史轻易的.抹杀掉也不足为怪．因此那些存在害怕自己会＂消失＂的这一潜意识的人会开始寻找自己的外部记忆装置．这样的东西可以是一只手表，一个布偶或是一本日记，而大多数时候，是一个人。

当我们和这另一个以人的形态出现的外部记忆装置在一起时会制造与其同时产生的记忆，因此，我们对于他们来说同样是外部记忆装置．这样互为＂装置＂的人通常会产生彼此依赖或是某种强烈的羁绊的联系感．

我们通过另一人记住曾经的自己，肯定自己的存在，那另一个人就像是一面镜子，映照出过去时的自己．我们对于寻找这样的外部记忆装置乐此不疲．两个人一起回忆过去，互相补充，总比一个人来得完整，更有＂肯定＂的价值．即使最终这个外部记忆装置跟我们一样，是会消失的．

当一个人成为你的＂装置＂，那个人就是另一个你．他是你的数据库，当数据库丢失，你的自我也将不复存在．因为没有任何东西可以证明你的存在．身体会随时间腐烂，消失，世人所能保存的，除了＂装置＂之外，无可证明．

他人的生命即是你的生命，反之亦然．

但相较于人这类脆弱的生物，我更偏向于选择某些更持久的东西作为外部记忆装置．例如文字．文字可以有很多的保存方法．纸，TXT文档,BLOG,等等等等.我建议最好用各种能想到的方式都保存一份.

我对于"装置"这类东西如此歇斯底里,不过是因为我比任何都害怕自我的"消失"罢了.


超爱这种对话

2006.09.18

雄健的鹰飞向了北方
最后一株秋草渐渐倒下
我开始相信一只蚂蚁的弱小
相信一只羚羊的死亡

站在岁月的风口
谁听见他内心的一些想法
逃得比冬眠的动物更加迅速

不会追问自己，
到底想要什么样的幸福生活。
我想，
我在感觉，我在经历，我在前行，
虽然不知道自己要的是什么，却会很清楚的知道自己不要的是什么。

很想告诉你 什么是幸福

幸福或许就是幻觉再美好的东西都必须放手，用一生的时间去体会，一张面孔，一种温度，一段春暖花开的时间。